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September 28, 2025 v2

While living in London close to Hampstead Heath, I would often ride my bicycle through the narrow
"Lanes" looking at the interesting small and large houses occupied by many well known people, 
also from  previous years through 2 centuries ago, each one marked with special Plaques.  

In the afternoons I would have to get ready with clothes etc: for the evening of teaching Ballroom
Dancing in several different large public Ballrooms, all of which I had to access by the Underground
railway, "Tube" until I had my own car, then I felt safer coming home alone in the dark ! Sometimes
if there was a professional competition coming up my Dance partner and I would spend many hours
 practicing in said huge buildings.  In the early 1950s we came 2nd  out of the whole of Southern England.
Unfortunately my Mother would not allow me to travel to Liverpool, Lancashire, for the "Whole of  " " " " "
competition. From then onwards I would often help my Father in our garden in the mornings, but 
Saturday evenings were always Dancingtime.

In Canada ,  Saturdays were times to relax from working in offices during the week, often driving all
around the countryside wherever we were living, Ottawa or Calgary until I had two sons. Naturally
Father would be home, also our Boys. As the years past quickly, Elder Brother Ian , played with 
Graham, then when we came to Almonte they would go fishing together at the edge of the Mississippy
River where there is now a small park, until Graham was about 5 and he had learned how to throw back
 all the fish he caught, it was not Ian's idea of fun ! They both made good friends here which have lasted
for many years.  With 6 and 1/2 years between each one , Saturdays were extremely busy both going
in different directions, sports and friends; I seemed to cook and garden for ever, until Ian went to
University and Graham was left alone. At that time some kind friend gave Graham an old "Dirt Bike"
 that would not work, so he decided to take it all apart in the "Old Pony shed" (1800's) in the garden.
Many weeks later, one Saturday morning he asked if he could use some of the lawn mower gas,
he wanted me to watch him,  at the first Pull it started. For many Saturdays he spent time riding
over the uneven "Old Metcalfe Farm" ground chasing a couple of friends on their bikes.  Now there
are many new houses built on the same land.

Now I have to look at the calendar to make sure it is Saturday, so I can be organised for my early
departure on Sunday morning to St. George's Church, Clayton.

Post Scriptum:

Thank you, It was great to remember it all .

September 28, 2025

 


A lovely read, Yes Saturdays were always busy times, but not rushed.

I'll write tomorrow with very different memories of London , then Canada.
I am ready for bed,  clean and hair washed, clothes laid out for my usual
early rise, 6am, hopefully with early sun shining on red trees all the way 
along Wolfgrove Rd to Clayton where I open up St.George's church
@ 8am and prepare the Altar for 9am.
9.45 pm Straight into bed !  Good night.

September 26, 2025


An interesting article, amongst others that I have finally read; too much happening all at the same time !

So much so that I could not sleep at the proper hours; then the underground parking door could not
be opened from outside, a truck smashed into the "key plug opener".  I had to leave my car outside for
2 nights, once the rain turned to a drizzle I walked to a clean car feeling rather weak, once parked down 
below at the far end of the building in the only EV space (with the trailing cord) I wondered how I could 
 manage to walk to the elevator; luckily the husband of a friend of mine asked if I needed help with the
parcel I was carrying," Yes please Ernst, could you also carry me ! Thank goodness I had made a 
delicious Sweet Potato soup in the morning, I filled a bowl , added fresh Broccoli and grated cheese,
once finished , I crawled into bed and slept for 10 and half hours without moving  !  That has been "
"A wake - up call"  Early to bed. !
Good night  !!

September 23, 2025 v2

 

Beautiful photos, the memories come tumbling home. 

Living in Ringwood, Hampshire, only a few miles from Bournemouth with it's fine white sand beach;
during the war no one was allowed to go anywhere near that gorgeous beach, partially mined. 
On the high hill above the English Channel, My Father, once in uniform again, all be it, the R.A.F ,
ordered very tall trees, maybe from the New Forest, to be cut down, branches removed, then 
the trees to be placed at certain intervals for miles along the South edge of Great Britain, facing 
the E.C.,with a few rocks each side of the large " Guns".  In 1940 just before the "Battle of Britain"
the country was extremely short of Weapons.

At my small Ringwood school, we all learned John Masefield's  poem , Sea Fever,
and said it each Monday morning, but.... adding "And planes and guns to keep us Safe".

September 23, 2025

 


A beautiful old Sailing ship, or is it an AI picture ?

September 20, 2025


You are sure to enjoy that healthy meal that you now smell !

Some of those "plant based meats" I dare not try, too many "allergies'. I eat lean pork, chicken breast,
fish of many kinds, eggs and Lactose free cheeses. While it is warm weather, every day I make large
 salads consisting of everything imaginable, plus my 1 a day tiny sweet tomato grown on my balcony in
the far corner against the usually warm red brick walls; there are still 29 green turning yellow fruits left,
these last few extra cold nights have not killed them ! BUT....we badly need rain, hopefully it is forecast
for Monday & Tuesday. We understand that Miss:Mills is asked to save water in every possible way.!
At the Condo meeting the other evening, one bright Spark suggested that we only shower one day a 
week, so another person suggested "Only if you don't come out of your locked apartment "! Many 
"Guffoughs" to both  !

September 20, 2025


Hi Bill, 

Just to let you know that Heather Sheffield passed on September 13,, aged 79,
after a short but courageous battle with cancer. 

On Thursday evening after the Annual Condo meeting, I attended Gamble's Funeral Home for the 
visitation. There was a slow moving, long line up. I am grateful that I went as I reconnected with
their middle daughter, Sarah, also Emily who came to Graham's birthday parties from aged 5, for
for several years.  Heather was a good friend of mine, who in1998 finally managed to persuade me
to become President of the Almonte Hospital Auxiliary.  That was the beginning of 10 years of hospitals;
Not only Almonte but eventually as Chairman of Eastern Ontario's 28 hospitals, which I discovered 
was the largest area in the whole of Ontario , all at the same time!  I was asked to continue with 
Ontario for another 5 years, ending as head of the Province.   Unfortunately my children's Father 
became ill, so I refused those final  5 years. 
Heather and I kept in touch whenever we could as she also worked.

On Friday morning I attended Heather's funeral service at St.Paul's.  Alan gave a delightful Eulogy, 
also sad at times when he had to stop talking.  Sarah also tried to start her Eulogy but the tears
were too much for several minutes. however she spoke lovingly and extremely well for all the Family.
The church was absolutely full. Rev: Jonathon Kouri produced an excellent service.

May Dear Heather rest in peace.

September 19, 2025 v2


We now have 5 new Condo owners on the ground floor; I am finding all are pleasant and 

interesting. One who now lives in the large apartment at the end of the corridor, was an
Almonte High School teacher.  When asking my last name he immediately said "and you
have two sons ! He remembered Ian, saying he was an excellent Soccer player and at age 
15 he played on the same team as the 18 year olds,he was small and extremely fast, also 
highly intelligent,  what does he do now ?   When I very briefly answered, he was Flabbergasted ! 
Then he asked about Graham, telling me most of the teachers often wondered if he has a
photographic memory !  A small world !

September 19, 2025

Interesting article.  One question;  Where on P.E.I is the Rod Crowbush Resort ? 


Denis did an amazing amount of studying and organising to make it all extremely worthwhile.

September 18, 2025


You were on the MOVE so much , I certainly understand your delight at finally coming

Home.  Once winter has arrived, (if it actually will be as we remember it all ! ) great 
memories will return, both good and even frustrating ones ! 
Welcome Home.

September 16, 2025

I know you would not have been able to travel to all the Eastern Provinces and home again ,without your extremely

comfortable new EV Cadillac .
The charging problems were relatively minor; improvement will emerge in following years.
An amazing holiday.  Enjoy the last portion ; Fall is almost here !

September 13, 2025

Well done ! That sounds like a great swim etc; after all that I'm sure you were ready for an 

excellent breakfast. 
Chester is a very nice small town next to the Bay;  it also has a large amount of expensive houses 
close by. I remember eating an excellent lunch right on the water.

September 11, 2025 v2

 

So glad you finally arrived on P.E.I.   A lovely photo of a golf course and ,Hotel ? which I recognise. 


Victoria by the Sea is a delightful small town. There is an excellent restaurant built over the water,
it does not look that good, water stained wood, but the food is excellent; you can eat inside or out
on the deck. We always went there2 or 3 times; our last year we met a good friend eating inside, 
when we were outside right next to the window, suddenly there was a tap tap on the glass, it was 
a friend from Montague, well East of Charlottetown. Her husband had been Mayor of Montague 
for several years, then said "enough "  so he had a break for a couple of years, then was asked,
almost pushed back into office for another few years ! Their daughter had a son who attended the
University St. Francis Exceavior in Antigonish at the same time as Our Granddaughter Sarah,
 they had a relationship for a few years until it was time for Sarah to enter Medical school.

There are lovely Sands all around  Stanley Bridge, Cavendish, Rustico, Brackley Beach,
We used to stay just outside Cornwall, all that area is very green and pretty.  You will find
your own delightful places.
Have fun, plenty of fish;  No more struggles to re- charge your car.

Post Scriptum:

That is what you are supposed to do, just relax and enjoy !!

September 11, 2025


Enjoy that beautiful Island.  In the 16 years that we went there, we must have covered every side road !

One interesting place was the farthest North point, where the High wind towers were erected; also 
I remember a reasonable restaurant in which to fill up etc: before the long drive home to Kensington
where we stayed in a large B & B on a large acreage with a beautiful ground floor suite, on the main 
Highway just past the well known potato chip factory.

September 10, 2025

 

We also had snake -rail fences around our 25 acres but sadly some of them were 200 years or more old.

But those ones were above the house on a high hill between US and the lovely old wooden farmhouse,
at least 7-800 ft away from our only road.

September 9, 2025

Another great day for you Both.  I believe that is the same way that Tony and I avoided Montreal. 

Waiting at the charging station is a great way to relax your eyes from following the road 
and maybe a snooze. Hopefully the beds at the hotel were as comfortable as everything else ! 

Enjoy todays drive through the small towns.  Now I must return to bed !

September 7, 2025


Well Done !  At least you did not completely run out of Charge.

Sleep well.  Better luck for tomorrow, it is a great learning experience.

On my way into Clayton at 7.30 am today on Wolf Grove Rd, quite a few trees are turning Red;  on the way home 
we had heavy rain all the way into Almonte, exactly what is needed.  Summer is returning for the next two weeks.
Safe driving.

Malpeque Oysters September 6, 2025 v2

Enjoy that amazing long trek.  When do you leave ?

Once on P.E.I you have to find "Malpeque" N.W. island, and eat their world renowned

famous Oysters.  Tony enjoyed them each time over 16 years, while I waited outside
on the grass, eating a homemade cheese sandwich, as I am highly Allergic to all
Shellfish!


Malpeque oysters are 
a variety of the native eastern oyster (Crassostrea virginica) from Prince Edward Island (PEI), Canada, specifically Malpeque Bay, and are famous for their balanced, clean, sweet flavor with a moderate brine and a meaty texture. Recognized as the "tastiest oyster in the world" at the 1900 Paris World's Fair, these oysters are highly prized for their rich history, teardrop-shaped shells, and tender meats, and are harvested using traditional hand-tonging methods from the cold, pristine waters of PEI.
Received by chance: Hi Bill: John Bell was a direct descendant of Rev. William Bell, the famous first Presbyterian Minister in Perth. I don't think John ever had much interest in his heritage. I went to school  with Pat, their daughter. John's Mother came to the school once to listen to us do story telling. It was only when I started doing research for an LCGS book "Lanark County Legends" that I realized that they actually were a pretty famous family, many of whom were  "legends". John was "different". He and Halcyon were friends with my parents until they (the Bells) discovered alcohol and that ended the relationship, since my parents were teetotallers!
Rose Mary

 

The Village of Clayton

Another  interesting article, specifically the names of people with whom I have met and or Known

for many years.
1. John Bell I briefly met Years ago at some gathering in Almonte, when I asked "Would you happen to
be related to Alexander G.Bell ?"  He looked slightly surprised, then answered  "maybe a couple of
hundred years ago " !   I seem to remember saying " he was my Grand-Father's first Cousin. We had
a brief chuckle realising we were not related 
2. Keith and Penny Blades, who now live on Parkview Crescent, a few minutes walk from here;
Penny ,I have known for many years with A.G.H.association organising many House Tours, the money 
received goes towards purchasing new necessary items (inside all hospitals),for which the Government 
does not pay.
3. The Thompson family has  produced Maple Syrup for almost 100years !  Glen THompson was the
Head of the Almonte Hospital Ambulance Association,  Now taken over by Lanark County. 
4 Rose Mary Sarsfield
I have a copy of her Book " Whispers from the Past " which she kindly signed for me in 2018 @ a special
meeting in Clayton,to hopefully sell her first number of books.  The picture on the front cover is the first 
wooden building where Maple Syrup was made and sold in Clayton. It was carefully renovated a
number of years ago,  right opposite Our property on Bellamy Mills Rd.   When gardening ,I could hear the 
saw squeaking and nails being banged into the wood !  

As a child Rose Mary grew up in an old log house a short distance around the bend on Bellamy Mills Rd.
She attended the small school closer to Clayton General Store,and remembers sliding down the steep slope
at the side of School during Icy cold winter days.

The McIntosh Family home on the edge of the lake, always has a large brightly coloured Christmas Tree,
that everyone can enjoy. Personally I have not met them, but Tony and I were good friends with their next
door neighbours across the small unpaved lane.  The names of whom I cannot remember at this moment.
The wife (Brigit?)was a well known artist, who travelled around the world, painting amazing pictures.   We celebrated the New year 2000, at Mary and Jim Huguesson's home with them all. Unfortunately the artist died, her
husband stayed alone in Clayton for a year, then decided to join his son in Sydney, Vancouver Island. He spent
his last Clayton evening at our house and drove  through the USA to The Island. We kept in touch for many 
years; another interesting story !  

Re:  Mollie P-W,  I brought My Mother to Almonte December 3,1979, She had stayed alone in the delightful old cottage in Melplash, Dorset U K, for 5 years after my Father, Ronald died, August 12, 1974.  I realised she was
no longer able to manage many everyday items;  She would telephone me in the middle of our night because she had forgotten how to turn off her electric kitchen stove. It would take me 2 or three times to tell her " There is a large black plug on the wall above the stove and next to it , there is a large black knob that you must pull down".
About a week later, the same kind of confusion with her washing machine. I telephoned one of her cousins,
who lived in another small village about 5 miles away. Thankfully she and her husband were able to mention to
Mollie that it was probably time to sell the cottage.  That was the start of the whole procedure of Mollie coming 
to Canada !  She stayed with my family and I, in our rented old Farmhouse at the base of Gemmill Park, owned
by Brig: General Don Stewart. At that time he was still Head of NATO in Syracuse, N.Y.
Unfortunately Mollie's memory was identified as Alshiermer disease.  Exactly one year
and one day later, Dr.Frank Murphy authorised her removal from AGH, to The Almonte
Nursing Home on Country St, with your knowledge as her lawyer.

A few months later, you had a phone call at your office,from a friend of mine, with whom
my family and I had briefly stayed in their new bungalow in Clayton upon our return
from living in Calgary, Alberta;  Mrs Audrey Baran questioned you re; "the unnecessary 
removal of Mollie to such a place as a nursing home."  In your own words , you told her
"It was none of her business and to leave her daughter alone."  Immediately you phoned
me, to tell me the whole present situation and that as a lawyer, you felt you should not
have done such a thing. My response: Thank you Bill, it was the correct way in which to
treat an unwanted "busybody".

The only time Mollie actually went to Clayton, Mrs.A.B. took her to Clayton for tea, on
Mollie's return She said "The countryside is lovely, but the house, awkward, cold and
uninviting; please give me a hot cup of REAL tea !
Naturally, I did not see the Baran's again.

Post Scriptum:

Thanks Bill,  but am I reading some of your words incorrectly ?
My eldest son Ian, has told me on many occasions, that he does not want
any of my "Things", furniture, glass,china,silver,Paintings, photos, etc: ect:

However, my younger son, Graham, has told me he would like all of my furniture
and Family items. Once retired he will repair, polish ect; read books.  He will rent
a large Van and drive everything home to Vancouver Island.

All that spacing on my "monologue" is by this computer, not as I sent it to you !!


Editorial Note

September 6, 2025

I can no longer withstand the grimace of having to ignore the tales I frequently receive from Mrs. Jonsen.  Previously I had abandoned the record keeping because she had dismissed the effort of any interest to her children. In view of the limited expectancy of amusement I have however foregone the necessity to correct the appearance of the monologues.